在人生旅途中，我们不可避免会遇到各种各样的问题，但面对问题的心态却决定了一切。有的人选择抱怨，有的人则选择感激。
当一个人抱怨时，他一定是站在自私的角度，将自己置于受害者的角色，认为问题和困境都是外界施加给他的，不是他自己的问题。这种想法十分糟糕，它会让我们对外界产生敌意和抗拒，陷入非常消极的情绪中，从而错过改变和进步的机会。
相反，感激则是另一种心态。当我们选择感激，我们不是在无视问题或安慰自己，而是从其中看到了自己成长的机会，看到了他人对我们的关心和帮助。这种的心态，会让我们更快地把问题改好，更有力量面对接下来的挑战。
心态的不同还会影响到我们与他人的关系。一个拥有感激之心的人，往往会更受她人的喜爱，因为她们珍视与她人的关系，愿意给予和帮助。而常抱怨的人，往往是自私的，他们做任何事都只是为了自己的利益，根本不会顾他人的感受，这样的人注定不会得到他人的喜欢。
人生充满了选择，但用什么样的角度看世界，完全由我们自己决定。
In the journey of life, we will inevitably encounter various problems, but the mentality of facing the problems determines everything. Some people choose to complain, while others choose to be grateful.
When a person complains, he must be taking a selfish point of view, putting himself in the role of the victim, thinking that the problems and difficulties are imposed on him by the outside world, not his own problems. This kind of thinking is very bad. It will make us hostile and resistant to the outside world, fall into very negative emotions, and miss opportunities for change and progress.
In contrast, gratitude is another state of mind. When we choose to be grateful, we are not ignoring problems or comforting ourselves, but seeing opportunities for our own growth and seeing others' care and help for us. This kind of mentality will allow us to fix the problem faster and be more powerful to face the next challenge.
A difference in mindset also affects our relationships with others. A person with a grateful heart tends to be more liked by others, because they value the relationship with others and are willing to give and help. And people who complain a lot are often selfish. They do everything for their own benefit and don't care about other people's feelings at all. Such people are destined not to be liked by others.
Life is full of choices, but what kind of perspective we use to see the world is entirely up to us.
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