做一个真实的人
很多人可能会疑惑，为什么说要做一个真实的人呢？最近通过叔叔的教导和一些反思，回想起从小到大形成的一些不好的思想和习惯，从内心来讲，我感觉自己并不是一个真实的人。这种真实来自于内心，我想，一个真实的人应该是内外一致，而不是心口不一，是有话直说，而不是口是心非。一个不真实的人，可以把谎言当作“真实”的事情向外传播，也可以用虚假来躲避祸患，或赢得利益。一个不真实的人，内心和外在可以是两个人，也许外表憨厚老实，但内心却心机叵测。也许乐善好施，却其实另有所图。也许在现在的中国，这样的人会被社会所接受，或是在事业上风生水起，或是被很多人赞赏精明，亦或是自诩聪明，认为生活很好，很幸福。
但是，这样的人生真的是幸福，快乐，且无忧虑的吗？一个真正真实的人，做什么事情都内外如一，不藏着掖着。行动上表里如一，没有两面三刀。遇到不公的结果或者恶人的刁难，内心也不会升腾起任何不安与难过，因为就像先贤王阳明说的：“此心光明，亦复何言”。内心光明，做什么事情都无愧于天地，也无愧于内心。做一个这样的真实的人，不光会在人生的道路上通往一条光明的大道，同时人们的尊敬与上天的护佑也会随之相伴一生。所以，我希望以后自己能够努力成为一个真正真实的人，不再趋于算计，不再心口不一，让生活中处处充满阳光。也希望所有的人都能够从内心去思考，人人都成为一个真实，且幸福的生命。
Be a real person
Many people may wonder, why do you want to be a real person? Recently, through my uncle's teachings and some reflections, I recalled some bad thoughts and habits formed since childhood. From the heart, I feel that I am not a real person. This kind of truth comes from the heart. I think a real person should be consistent internally and externally, rather than inconsistent with what he says. He should speak his mind directly, rather than duplicity. An untruthful person can spread lies as "true" things, or he can use lies to avoid disasters or gain benefits. An unreal person can be two different people inside and out. He may be honest and honest on the outside, but he has ulterior motives on the inside. They may be charitable, but they actually have other agendas. Perhaps in today's China, such people will be accepted by society, or they will have a successful career, or they will be praised by many people for their shrewdness, or they will think that they are smart and think that life is very good and happy.
But is such a life really happy, joyful, and worry-free? A truly authentic person does everything he does internally and externally, without hiding anything. Be consistent in your actions, no duplicity. When encountering unfair results or difficulties from evil people, there will be no uneasiness or sadness in the heart, because as the sage Wang Yangming said: "If your heart is bright, there is nothing to say." With a bright heart, no matter what you do, you are worthy of heaven and earth, and worthy of your heart. Being such a real person will not only lead to a bright road in life, but also people's respect and God's protection will accompany you throughout your life. Therefore, I hope that in the future I can work hard to become a truly authentic person, no longer tend to be calculating and inconsistent, and let my life be filled with sunshine everywhere. I also hope that all people can think from the heart, and everyone can become a real and happy life.
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