这周叔叔跟我说的一段话让我很有感触。昔日寒山问拾得曰：世间有人谤我、欺我、辱我、笑我、轻我、贱我、恶我、骗我、如何处治乎？拾得曰：只要忍他、让他、由他、避他、耐他、敬他、不要理他，再待几年你且看他。
人活在世上总会遇到不顺心的人或事，如果你老去和那些人计较，浪费的是你的时间，难受的也是你自己，所以何苦生气呢。就像拾得说的只要忍他、让他、由他、避他、耐他、敬他、不要理他，再待几年你且看他。你不跟他计较你没失去什么，反而是他，他自己不注重提高自己的道德品格，迟早还会得罪别人，就会有人去跟他计较去收拾他的，所以何苦跟这些人生气呢。
Something my uncle said to me this week touched me very much. In the past, Hanshan asked Shide: There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, belittle me, belittle me, hate me, or lie to me. How should I deal with them? Shi De said: Just tolerate him, let him, let him go, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, wait for a few years and see him.
When people live in the world, they will always encounter people or things that don't go well with them. If you worry about those people when you get old, it will be a waste of your time and you will be uncomfortable, so why bother getting angry. Just like Shide said, just tolerate him, let him, let him, avoid him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, wait for a few more years and you can see him. If you don't argue with him, you won't lose anything. On the contrary, it's him who doesn't pay attention to improving his moral character. Sooner or later, he will offend others, and someone will argue with him and deal with him, so why bother getting angry with these people.
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